1) Being a smoker
I can not express enough how disgusting the scent of cigarettes are to me. Whether we're friends, or dating, I would never genuinely be enthused to spend time near someone who smells of them. It would linger on their breath, within the fibers of all of their clothing, on their hair, upon their skin, etc. There is absoultely no way.
2) Clingyness
Constantly having to validate my relationship to a friend, or partner. Those who need a text every hour of the day, and flip out otherwise? Goodbye. If we are friends, or if we're together, I need those around me to have enough confidence in themselves, me, and our bond to understand just how excessive that is realistically.
3) Not possessing a sense of self
This piggybacks off of the aforementioned section a bit, but those who lose themselves in other people, and expect said others to do the same. For example, individuals who need to be in a relationship to feel "whole". I'm not interested in another person becoming so dependant on me, and my presence that they can barely function as their own separate entity.
4) Unprotected initimacy
Don't want any surprise pregnancies, STIs, STDs, ABCs, or 123s. If whomever I am with doesnt share a similar sense of self preservation then the door is right over there. Hell to the naw.
5) Cheaters
I have zero tolerance for cheating. If someone were to ever possess the gall to cheat on me then best believe its a done deal. Second chances, where? Not here. Not ever.
6) Unemployed with no desire to remedy
If youre able bodied, and very much capable of finding a job, yet just decide not to, then we've got a problem. Less so for a friend, but one nonetheless. Its one thing to be job hunting, and not recieve a callback/follow up by potential employers, yet another entirely to just not even try. The real world costs money. There is no disrupting that, but there are some who are under the impression that leeching off others will sustain them in the long run. A massive wake up call lies in their immediate future.